Swaps with Purpose
Our Why
We believe clothing carries energy, memories, and the power to shape how we see ourselves—but it also carries a responsibility to our planet. Fast fashion has turned clothing into waste, filling landfills and polluting ecosystems. By gathering in circle, we create a sacred space for transformation, not just for ourselves but for the garme
We believe clothing carries energy, memories, and the power to shape how we see ourselves—but it also carries a responsibility to our planet. Fast fashion has turned clothing into waste, filling landfills and polluting ecosystems. By gathering in circle, we create a sacred space for transformation, not just for ourselves but for the garments we exchange. Together, we honor who we’ve been, celebrate who we are, and step into who we are becoming—while keeping clothing in circulation, reducing waste, and embracing a more sustainable, intentional way of living.
On A Mission
Through mindful exchange, we release what no longer serves us—whether it’s a piece tied to past expectations, an item carrying regret, or clothing that simply no longer aligns with our journey. Together, we support each other in letting go, making space for reinvention, and embracing the beauty of change.
The Power of Intention
The Power of Intention
By extending the life of our clothing, we honor sustainability, conscious consumption, and the power of community. This is more than just swapping clothes—it’s a collective act of renewal, connection, and self-expression.
Our Flow
Power of Play & Reinvention
We invite playfulness and self-expression into the process. Trying on unexpected pieces, stepping into new styles, and celebrating each other's unique beauty turns this into a joyful, liberating experience. Instead of clinging to outdated versions of ourselves, we open up to fresh perspectives and newfound confidence.
This way of swapping
We invite playfulness and self-expression into the process. Trying on unexpected pieces, stepping into new styles, and celebrating each other's unique beauty turns this into a joyful, liberating experience. Instead of clinging to outdated versions of ourselves, we open up to fresh perspectives and newfound confidence.
This way of swapping isn't just about sustainability—it’s about transformation, community, and honoring the journey of both ourselves and our clothing.
A Ritual of Connection
Before the swapping begins, we gather in circle—a sacred pause where we set intentions, share stories, and support one another. This isn’t just about clothes; it’s about acknowledging the emotional layers they carry and giving ourselves permission to evolve. We take a moment to ask for what we need, whether it’s a fresh start, a confidence boost, or a shift in personal style.
Cooperation Over Competition
Cooperation Over Competition
Unlike traditional swaps that can feel like a race to claim the "best" items, our exchanges are rooted in mindfulness and mutual respect. We encourage a spirit of looking out for one another—if we find something that would be perfect for a friend, we hold it up with excitement. If someone is searching for a specific piece, we keep an eye
Unlike traditional swaps that can feel like a race to claim the "best" items, our exchanges are rooted in mindfulness and mutual respect. We encourage a spirit of looking out for one another—if we find something that would be perfect for a friend, we hold it up with excitement. If someone is searching for a specific piece, we keep an eye out. It’s not about grabbing; it’s about giving and receiving in balance.
Herstory and Founder
Meet Betsy
For over eight years in both San Diego and Asheville, Betsy has been holding and refining the Intentional Clothing Exchanges with dozens and dozens of women. They have been more than just a swap—they’ve been a collaborative experience. Designed with care, this process ensures that everyone feels seen, supported, and inspired as they relea
For over eight years in both San Diego and Asheville, Betsy has been holding and refining the Intentional Clothing Exchanges with dozens and dozens of women. They have been more than just a swap—they’ve been a collaborative experience. Designed with care, this process ensures that everyone feels seen, supported, and inspired as they release what no longer serves them and welcome in new possibilities.
Her Why
After feeling the stress of a chaotic free-for-all, Betsy wanted to create and environment built on organization, community, and play.
For the first 30 minutes, we come together to sort and arrange the clothing in a way that makes it easy to browse and find what speaks to us. There’s no hoarding, grabbing, or rushing—just a shared effort
After feeling the stress of a chaotic free-for-all, Betsy wanted to create and environment built on organization, community, and play.
For the first 30 minutes, we come together to sort and arrange the clothing in a way that makes it easy to browse and find what speaks to us. There’s no hoarding, grabbing, or rushing—just a shared effort to uplift one another as we transform our wardrobes and ourselves.
